My husband and I were sitting by the fire outside last fall. It was late and, honestly, I was tired.
He wanted to have a chat about our sex life. I instantly became aware of that mental wall I had around all things sexual instantly come up. Yet, I knew that this conversation had to happen.
We had been reading a book about how to restore intimacy after betrayal. While it had been helpful, the book also brought up some hard topics to discuss with your spouse and I had a hard time coming to terms.
After betrayal, sex is