3 Lies Porn Taught Me About Sex

Sadly, most people—both men and women—don’t know what sex is today. It was a fall day in third grade. I jumped off the bus and abided by my normal routine of climbing my next-door neighbor’s fence and knocking on the front door to join Jackson,...

Will You Choose Freedom?

We live in weird world. Our society shames people for acknowledging that you can’t do it all alone. I’m convinced that the individualism we love to champion is actually destroying us. Why is there such a stigma surrounding the need for others? What are we...

3 Simple Ways To Build Intimacy Within Marriage

If you’ve been married for any length of time, you know that the relationship you have with your spouse should be like no other. Two people who’ve made a commitment to each other have started on a journey to merge their lives together. This is almost...

4 Ways To Respond To Your Spouse’s Porn Problem

As an author and speaker about the inner thoughts and feelings of men, including the visual nature of men, I get a lot of questions from my audiences, like this very common one: “I just discovered my spouse is using porn and am devastated. What should I...

What if Masturbation Could Heal Us?

If there’s one topic that freaks Christians out the most, it’s masturbation. When you tune into the discussion, it can get alarmingly serious. There are believers who stand on either side of the fence on this topic, but overwhelmingly within the Church,...

Don’t Get Caught Off Guard with Their Grieving

____ came into the counseling office looking very despondent. “I don’t understand what happened this week,” he said. “_____ had been doing so well and I have not seen her angry in more than a month. Then she just exploded. Crying, throwing...