What Is Wrong with Pornography Anyways?

  About This Episode When I go to speak at events, I get this question during the Q&A just about every time. Basically the question is always some form of, “why are you picking on porn? What’s the big deal?” And I’ll usually laugh and...

What Is Behind My Compulsive Behavior?

 About This Episode In today’s Whiteboard Session, Steven Luff, co-author of Pure Eyes: a Man’s Guide to Sexual Integrity and creator of the X3Pure 30-Days to Purity on-line recovery program, answers a question we get a lot: what’s...

3 Ways to Move Past Sexual Regret

Before we get to the 3 Ways….we want you to learn from this story. Monica Lewinksy, the notorious center of the scandal that will forever plague former President Bill Clinton, made a remarkable statement in her recent TED Talk: “I was Patient Zero of...

4 Deceptively Simple Ways To Rebuild Broken Trust

We can’t change each other; we can only change ourselves. That’s just one of the hard and fast truths about relationships, and yet we tend to spend tremendous amounts of time and energy ignoring it. Hey, I get it: sometimes that person really needs to...

3 Ways to Look and Not Lust

If you are a guy and have been involved in some sort of accountability group (like an X3group), no doubt the subject of “lust” has come up. In my group on Wednesday mornings we talk about this often. Usually the conversation focuses on 3 things: 1. What is...