How To Share Your Story to Help Others Through Theirs

Debilitating guilt. Difficult habits. Dehumanized marriage. You recognize the warning signs of sexual addiction because you have firsthand experience. While your story might not be something you’ve shared with everyone, you’ll notice that some people will...

Why You Need To Forgive To Get Free

Did you know that unforgiveness could be stopping you from overcoming pornography? I’ve worked with a lot of men over the years to help them get free of porn. I’ve worked with young and old, rich and poor, students, doctors, and everything in between. And...

Tangible Steps to Freedom

“Motivation is what gets you to start, and habit is what keeps you going.” – Jim Ryun These words summarize the path I’ve taken to healing from my addictions: alcohol, promiscuity, and living a generally hedonistic lifestyle. I remember what...

What Happens After 10 Years of No Porn?

From a predator to a protector A few years ago, one of my pastors told me, “Men tend to become one of two things: a predator of women or a protector of women.” Again and again, I’ve seen this statement proved right — not just in others’...

You Are Never Too Far Gone

We can get to a place in the struggle with lust that we think we’ve gone too far. We’ve promised again and again never to go back, only to return to the very thing we swore we were done with.  I thought I was too far gone There was a time in my...

Help! My Spouse Just Told Me They Watch Porn.

You can see in your spouse’s eyes that something is wrong. His eyes shift nervously to different things in the room but never meet yours. She opens her mouth to speak, but no words come out. Whether you are the wife or the husband waiting for your spouse to tell...