Overcoming Fear with Vulnerability

Telling the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth is foundational to living a life of integrity. I don’t know anyone who would argue that point. But I know a lot of people who struggle with applying it when it comes to breaking free from unwanted...

3 Considerations for Confessing Your Struggle

Over the past decade, I can’t count how many emails I’ve received from individuals struggling with porn and the like who I had no connection with, but still felt comfortable enough to confess all of their “sins” to me. It seems strange on one...

Eyes To See: Transparency for the Sake of Transformation

But can I really change? As a life and relationship coach in a private practice who specializes in working with clients healing from the devastating effects of compulsive sexual behaviors and betrayal this is a question I hear almost weekly. Betrayers want to know if...

The Problem with Masks

Maybe you’ve noticed as I have, but now that we are midway through September, stores are starting to set up all their Halloween displays. Blow ups, spooky animatronics, costumes, candy – the list goes on. And whether you enjoy trick-or-treating and all the...

The Truth Shall Set You Free

“I don’t find joy in being a father.” These were the words that I blurted out to my wife on the way home from a wedding about two years ago. The words didn’t just come to me on the way home. In fact, my wife wasn’t the first person to...