3 Lessons From Bruce Jenner

By Carl Thomas You know, I’ve never been a big Wheaties fan … just not my taste as far as cereal goes. Honestly, I’m not really sure who would like Wheaties. There is just nothing that sounds appetizing about a “bran and wheat” flake. But regardless, one...

3 Steps to Freedom

By Jeff Fisher Being in recovery for the last seven years and helping guys in recovery for the last five has put me in touch with hundreds of people who struggle sexually. Many are coming out of isolation and sharing their deep, dark secrets for the first time. Or...

Do You Want A Pastor Or A Rock Star?

By Carl Thomas Earlier this week, my friend Craig Gross wrote a piece for the Blaze called “Eat It or Beat It.” In that post he asked a really simple question: “When did we decide it was okay for pastors to be overweight but not okay for them to struggle with porn?”...

How can I Share My Struggles with my Wife?

I realize the title of this blog can cause some men to sweat bullets; the idea of talking to your wife about your sexual struggles may even make you nauseous. I understand. Early on in our healing process I watched my husband stumble through confessions with nervous...

It Isn’t A Battle. It’s A Pilgrimage.

By Seth Taylor When I was a porn addict, I attended a small group at my church. We confessed to each other and encouraged one another through prayer and counsel. I made some really close friends in that group. There is something powerful about the ability to be truly...

Is Masturbation a Sexual Sin?

By Paul R. The ‘M’ word, Spanking the Monkey, Choking the Chicken, Bashing the Bishop, Buffin’ the Bishop, Blowing Your Own Horn, Choking Kojak, Civil War (yeah, I’m not sure about that one either), Doing the Dew, Draining the Lizard, Flute Solo,...