Grace… It’s Not Tolerance

Those of you who have read Beyond Betrayal will know I’m a big believer in intimacy. Intimacy with God and others is, in my opinion the most important factor in healing from porn and sex addiction… and it’s a key component in healing from our...

From Tainted Memories… to Hope

by Michael Taylor Your memory is more about your future than your past. This is one of the assertions that Curt Thompson makes in his book Anatomy of the Soul. He explains how our implicit memory affects how we interpret the present and drives our predictions of what...

Lies We are Told about Sex Addiction: Part 2

This week we continue from last week’s post with yet more lies circulating in parts of the therapeutic community that are unhelpful to porn/sex addicts and their spouses. 3. Your husband isn’t a sex addict…or is he? Many women have felt incredibly...

Lies We’re Told About Sex Addiction

For the past several month I’ve been doing research (as part of my schooling) on sex addiction. At times the journey has been frustrating and painful at other times enlightening and helpful. Over the next two weeks I’d like to address four bits of nonsense...

Church Experiences of Partners of Sex Addicts

by Donna Meredith Dixon As part of the launch of Christian Sex Addiction Specialists International (C-SASI), long-time BB community member Donna Meredith Dixon wrote this blog post. Please share this with any church leader who could benefit. Walking into the...

She’s Not the Enemy: Part 2

Today we continue with Jeff Hutchinson’s excellent article aimed at SA husbands that he started for us last week. More Truth In the book Your Sexually Addicted Spouse, Barbra Stephens and Marsha Means provided the sex addiction community with a new model for...