Ask the Expert Part 3

This week I have the immense privilege of attending APSATS* training with Barb Steffens — founder of the partner trauma model. I thought I’d share the blessing (of Barb’s wisdom) this week with the whole of the community, as she answers another...

Dear Sex Addict: A letter about Your Brain

Dear Sex Addict Husband: Hi. I know I can seem like a bit of a scary person to you. I’m the woman who keeps encouraging your wife to call you on your stuff. I tell her to use her voice. I encourage her to feel her feelings without judgment (including the...

Insights from a Ministry Wife: Part 4

Today, in her wrap-up to her series on ministry wives, guest blogger, “C” shares responses from three other ministry wives of porn and sex addicts, “NH,” “A,” and “N” These are responses to the questions, “if I...

Insights from a Ministry Wife: Part 3

Today, guest writer, C, continues to share from the perspective of how being the wife of a porn or sex addict impacts ministry wives. “I know the Lord is always with me. I will not be shaken, for He is right beside me.” —Psalm 16:8 Much as I wanted...

Insights from a Ministry Wife: Part 2

In her first blog post, guest writer, C, shared thoughts about how to move from “wondering” if our husband has a problem to prompting disclosure. Today she shares the hardship of dealing with the knowledge that a husband (in ministry) has a porn or sex...

Insights on the Journey: from a Ministry Wife

In this post—the first of a new, three-part series—guest blogger, “C,” shares her story, and the insights gained on her journey to healing from sexual betrayal. C is writing from the perspective of a pastor’s wife and her reflections will...