10 Things I Hate…: Part 4

In our first post in the “Ten Things I Hate About Your Addiction” series we looked at the issues of anger and hatred. This week we’ll be looking at the obvious next steps on from these two poisonous traits… cruelty and violence. Cruelty In...

10 Things I Hate…: Part 3

This week the Ten Things I Hate About Your Addiction series continues with a look at hypocrisy. To date, we’ve covered off lying & anger and fear & cowardice. As a reminder, the purpose of this series is to validate what we may be seeing in our marriage...

10 Things I Hate…: Part 2

This week we continue our look at the destructive character traits that too often accompany sex addiction. Last week, we took a close look at the lying and the anger. Today, we’ll continue by looking at fear and cowardice. Just as a reminder, this series is not...

10 Things I Hate About Your Addiction: Part 1

Betrayal wounds. Terribly. However, those of us walking with women on the journey to healing from betrayal often hear how it’s not just his betrayal that is harming them. There’s something about discovering our husband’s sexual/porn addiction that...

The In-House Separation: Part 2

Last week‘s post was the first of a two-part series on how to “do” an in-house separation in a way that is more likely to result in healing. Today we continue (after having looked at space/job division, intimacy and communication) with communicating...

The In-House Separation

In these days of (for many) financial stress, “leaving” an SA husband who has broken our protective boundaries may feel like it’s not an option. Or, possibly we are looking at breaches that may feel like they do not require something quite as...