Anxiety, fear, worry, hurt… these are the feelings that arise for me when I think about hard conversations. In my marriage, a lot of these conversations have been a result of porn usage by my spouse.
After YEARS of having tough conversations that usually ended in yelling and tears (both by me), I started to look for another way.
Yes, conversations can cover tough topics (like relapse or disclosure), but that doesn’t mean that they have to be dysfunctional. Through my years of reading, learning, and growing I have learned that the safer a person I become –