But can I really change?
As a life and relationship coach in a private practice who specializes in working with clients healing from the devastating effects of compulsive sexual behaviors and betrayal this is a question I hear almost weekly. Betrayers want to know if they are doomed to stay in this cycle of struggle and partners want to know if the behavior can truly ever stop.
My consistent response is: Yes radical change is absolutely possible, but we have to know what we are dealing with to know what we need to do.
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