Many betrayed wives I speak with tell me of other friends or family members who have spouses who they are fairly certain are also being betrayed by their husband/spouse. To them, “it’s obvious” he (the husband/partner) has an issue. Sometimes they’ve tried to talk to this woman only to be shut down. Sometimes they’ve just tried to share some of their own story as a betrayed wife and got “the cold shoulder” of rejection.
At other times betrayed wives themselves ask me, “why was I so blind, how could I not have seen,” or a related (though bigger) question, “am I