Gaslighting: Who’s the Bad Guy?

Beyond Betrayal Community friend, Dan Drake recently posted this excellent article on his site on gaslighting that I thought would add to our current series on this topic. Dan’s particular focus is “DARVO”: Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim – Offender.


Most of us don’t enter relationships thinking about gaslighting or about emotional abuse strategies. Instead, we often enter relationships with hope for what a new relationship can bring. Partners of sex addicts are no exception: they frequently find a partner who is charming, loving, and maybe even doting… at first. Yet, all too often what starts with life and love

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