by Jeff Hutchinson
“If a house is divided against itself, that house cannot stand.”— Mark 3:25
My wife, Ella, and I have been facilitating couples’ intensives since 2011. For addicts who are taking recovery seriously and partners who have somehow found it in their hearts to give him another chance, this can be a profound experience. A couple’s intensive involves three days of intense counseling, coaching, and experiential exercises to help a couple whose marriage has been jolted by sex addiction find healing.
On the second day I ask both the husband and wife to allow themselves to be really