by Ella Hutchinson
Last week we launched Ella’s two-part post on six things the Church Should never say to wives of sex addicts. As Ella mentioned in Part 1, there are doubtless more things yet that get said (that shouldn’t), but these six are ones that are heard far too often.
4. “Don’t ask your husband to leave the home”
This is again encouraging enabling behavior and discouraging healthy boundary setting. In Luke Gilkerson’s article, “Is pornography Grounds for Divorce: How my Opinion Changed”, he references Vicki Tiede, stating:
“She recommends a time of mediated separation for the couple (if