Today’s post, the first in a two-part series, tackles a common myth circulating in the church, and beyond, that men wouldn’t “wander” (i.e. use porn, lust, act out sexually with others) if their wives were just working harder to please them sexually. In other words… it’s our fault when they have these issues.
It’s a pleasure to have guest blogger, Jane Howcroft, debunking this myth over the next two weeks. Jane is the author of a bible study for those ministering to wives of sex sex addicts which will be released later this year through the Naked Truth Project in the U.K.
Today a friend sent me a link to a blog—she warned me it would likely make me angry. She wasn’t wrong! I read this blog post, Making It Easy For Your Husband to Not Lust by “transformed wife” and my heart sank that such a post could be