When I began to write this blog about whether couples can watch porn together responsibly all I had was questions.
– Does it make you compare yourself and/or your partner to the actors on screen? How does that affect your self-esteem? Theirs?
– Surely if a couple is watching together, at least there is openness and no secret porn viewing, right? Isn’t that good?
– Couldn’t it give ideas for sex that might spark a great sex life?
– What does watching together actually entail? Just watching? Mutual masturbation? Having sex at the same time?
– Can some couples watch porn and it be okay? Only if both are in agreement? If they can, who are we to disagree? Is there a difference between that and welcoming someone else in physically?
– What about a couple whose experience has been that porn has been helpful? How can we